Frequently asked questions

What is DatingCoachSOS?

DatingCoachSOS is a service where you can communicate directly with your own personal dating coach via email and private messaging. You can also include photos and short videos in your messages. It is completely private.

How does it work?

You purchase a 2-day, weekly or monthly plan, which allows you to email or message your personal dating coach as much as you want during that time period. You don’t have to worry about cramming everything you need to say in one session, or having to pay for numerous follow up session. You just pay one low flat fee and communicate at your convenience, whenever you need to. Once you purchase your plan you’ll receive instructions on how to communicate with your coach.

How soon will my coach respond to my messages?

Your personal dating coach will often respond within an hour or less, sometimes within minutes. However, we give your coach up to 6 hours to respond, but that doesn’t apply to late time communication. If you message your coach at midnight, you’ll most likely have to wait until the next morning to get your answer. That’s because your coach isn’t located in India, Africa or the Far East in some call center. Your coach is most likely asleep, like most people in the US. Isn’t it comforting to know that you’re getting your advice from a real person living in the US who speaks your “language”?

How much does it cost?

A 2 day plan (48 hrs) costs $49. A weekly pass (7 day) costs $59. A monthly (30 day) pass costs $199. Just to compare, an average session with a conventional dating coach can range between $100 and $300 per session, and you usually have to go through multiple sessions to get what your looking for (if you’re lucky).

With DatingCoachSOS you get to formulate and clearly articulate your issue in an email and get a direct, thoughtful and to the point answer within a few hours. You can then follow up with additional emails, but we’ve found that users usually get their answer within the first or second email. That saves you a boat load of time and money.

Who should use DatingCoachSOS?

DatingCoachSOS works well for people that have specific dating and relationship issues and want effective advice to solve them.

It’s for people who would rather succinctly articulate their issue and question in an email than sit through several sessions with a conventional dating coach trying to get their point across.

It’s for people that are more comfortable working via email and messaging and who might find the idea of opening up to a stranger in person a bit uncomfortable.

It’s for people who don’t want to be constrained by an hour long session, but would rather be able to communicate with their dating coach at their own convenience and time schedule.

Finally, it’s for people who don’t want to spend hundreds or thousands of dollars when they can get the guidance they need for a small fraction of that.

Is DatingCoachSOS better than using a traditional dating coach in face to face or phone sessions?

As they say, to each his (or her) own.  For those people who are willing to spend hundreds of thousands of dollars and work within a strict time schedule set by someone else, then face to face might be the answer. But that simply isn’t affordable or effective for the overwhelming majority of singles seeking advice.

With DatingCoachSOS you get unlimited communication with your personal dating coach for one low flat fee.

If you decide you need face or talk time, you can arrange for that directly with your coach at traditional coaching rates. For more benefits of using DatingCoachSOS, click here.

Who are the coaches?

Our select team of dating coaches at DatingcoachSOS is led by Arnie Singer, author of From I to I Do and a successful private coach and relationship coach for almost 10 years. Our philosophy is based on an honest, no nonsense approach to dating without the gimmicks, tricks and games that interfere and prevent many singles from finding lasting relationships and true love. Read more here.

Start communicating with your personal dating coach today!