Entries by Arnie Singer

Fishing in the Right Pond to Find the Right One

A friend of mine is a very handsome, intelligent, fun, down to earth, and really nice guy, who teaches elementary school. He lived in Manhattan for most of his adult life, until he realized that he wasn’t meeting the right kind of woman. He didn’t have a problem attracting women. It’s just that those Manhattan […]

301-How to Handle Rejection by Women, For Men

In my last post I told the gals what to do “when the answer is no” (how to handle rejection). Although the guys should, in most cases, heed the same advice and move on to greener pastures after being rejected, they might have a second chance, under the right circumstances. Timing is everything…for gals. You […]

301-Ladies, what to do when the Answer is No

You’ve finally mustered the courage to ask someone out, only to receive a clear and unambiguous NO. What now? How do you handle being rejected? Should you try again, move on, wait around for a change of heart, convince them of their error? Well, it depends on you, them, your situation, and their situation. If […]